Town Centre 150m

18 06 2010

Have you ever done it? Travelling north from Hamilton, wishing they would complete the expressway, driving through Ngaruawahia, then the sign: Town Centre 150m Turn Right. Why not I thought? I realised I’d never been into the town centre. Come to think of it, I wasn’t sure that I even knew that there was a town centre. Wasn’t it just that BP, the pub with the huge Waikato Draft sign and a couple of shops on the main road? Well no, actually, there’s more to it and it’s not bad. Tidy, some nice buildings and quite a lot of activity. Not exactly Matamata (who would have thought you would look up to Matamata!) but it’s okay. So what is Ngaruawahia about?  The Maori King, close to Mt Taupiri and probably it’ll be the last town to be avoided before Hamilton as the expressway starts it’s next trip south and away from all those small towns. The street you drive in to get to the town centre is Galileo Street. I wonder how they ended up with that one? Maybe like me, they like space. Could be why you’d live there too.

There’s a website for the town if you’re interested.





A beautiful narcissist

9 06 2010

I’m not sure whether I should be putting this blog in here as a memo about a movie or under my corporate psychopath blog – the movie wins but suffers the header. In the world we live in today where very little seems original and you can have a copy of whatever you want, Coco Chanel’s style in Coco & Igor is delicious. The movie got me right from the start with the dramatic beginnning in the premiere of Stravinsky’s new work in 1913 (though what’s with the opening credits still appearing after what seemed like about 20 minutes?!). It was an artistic movie, mainly in French, with some Russian and a little English. Chanel is portrayed as a striking, independent, sexual and ruthless woman who would play second fiddle to no-one, including Stravinsky. Her lack of conscience at destroying his family felt harsh and there was little doubt that she got what she wanted in life. And with style.

It was glamorous in setting, though the pain of lust vs family was very unglamorous. Narcissitic behaviour is often excused with the phase “but she’s so amazing at….”, as if excellence at something excuses destroying other lives. It doesn’t and the movie made it plain to me that it doesn’t.

I liked it. What to do with my front room? Been thinking about a makeover – maybe black and white…..





32 years ago

7 06 2010

I got my drivers licence today in 1978 after a course of lessons with Mr “AA” Watson. Muldoon was the Prime Minister. I was at Shirley Boys’ High School. I first drove on the road on my 15th birthday in my brother David’s Morris 1000. Dad let me drive on family outings for practice. It felt easy and still does. I love driving. Always have. Always will. Love road trips with the cruise control on, cornering with the ease that a safe car and experience gives you. I drive safe and I enjoy it. All we ever hear nowadays is about the things that go wrong on the road. For me many things go right. I reckon that the highways are far better now than in 1978. Took my Mum and Dad to Rotorua with my son Tim for the Marathon last month. Beautiful drive on great highways. Perfect New Zealand scenery. Even driving in the city is great. I’m patient, used to being late so I relax and take in what’s around. It’s like being in a perpetual movie. Thanks Mr Watson. I reckon I’ve driven about 600000 km. And I’ve enjoyed it. When I stop and park, thanks to you I can reverse in like no-one can. You gave me the angle and I still got it man! Once a man in Mission Bay came over to shake my hand having watched three other motorist try and take a park, and give up. Ha. Gotta go, my car’s all gassed up ready to go!





Walk in and sign up

1 06 2010

Back in 1992 I adopted a new young Doctor who had started a practice in the local area. We were one of the first patients and my boys are still under her care. A couple of other Doctors also held surgery there and I enjoyed having “my” doctor and when I wished, one of the other doctors. About a year ago it all split up and my GP went into flash, and no doubt expensive rooms, with other Doctors, two of whom they describe as “walk-in doctors” ie you can walk in without an appointment and see the doc, when you want, 12 hours a day.

The other doctor I had got to know went off to a rather dreary looking surgery and I missed the opportunity to see him. Nowadays, you need to “sign up” to one surgery or the visits cost quite a lot of money. How it works is that the surgery receives a set amount of funding for you and so it’s in their interests to ensure that you are well and don’t actually have to see the doctor (assuming I guess that the $40 or so you do pay is not an incentive). It also means that from a customer relations perspective, there is no incentive to look after the signed up patients.

Which is what I discovered this afternoon. Phoning earlier I lamented, yet again, no-one there knows me, that everytime I phone I need to explain who I am etc etc. What?! Have I phoned the District Health Board? Feels like it as a series of recorded messages describe how I can leave a message to get a script completed. Optimistically, I attended at the rooms several hours later to collect my script to be told, in the third person, that “he left a message two hours ago and it takes 24 hours to have a script completed”. “Who is he?” I enquired, to discover the person who had hurriedly come from the bowels of the place, was in fact talking about me. I discovered that the script had been completed but not signed. “So can I wait for the doctor to sign the script?”.  ”Oh no, you can’t, it takes 24 hours”.  ”So this is a medical practice without a doctor”. “No, but we only have walk-in doctors and they can’t sign”.

I found my part-time Doctor in the dreary looking rooms not far away and paid him a visit. I walked in, and he saw me straight away – couple of things I’d been saving up, got some forms for blood tests, he did my BP, got a flu jab, the prescription and yeah, it cost me $69 cos I’m not “signed up” yet.

I went back to the flash doctor’s rooms because they’ve got a pharmacy in the building. One of the walk-in doctors walked in and gave me a friendly wave. I waved back, but I might as well have been waving farewell. I guess all those uniforms, lease, imagery cost a lot of money. But you can’t buy loyalty with that stuff. Or it seems, a doctor who can sign.





Otahuhu Otahuhu I love you

1 06 2010

On Saturday my son Tim and I decided we would take a train trip from Britomart to Sylvia Park.  Actually we were going to go from Mt Eden but the Western Line was closed for completion of the double tracking.  There’s something vaguely international about travelling on the train especially when the train heads up the wrong line!  ”Excuse me, I asked to go to Sylvia Park – it might have been helpful if you’d mentioned we were on the wrong train”.  ”You’ll need these – get off at Otahuhu and the train to Sylvia Park will arrive 4 minutes later”.  So armed with our transfer tickets we headed to Otahuhu.

New York New York, I love you is a series of short films about, unsurprisingly, New Yorkers, and love. It’s a bit predictable but pretty funny and the briefness of the stories kept my attention. It’s got a Seinfeld feel to parts of it “why does the pharmacist have to be two and a half feet higher than the rest of us?” went though my mind.  The old couple out on a day trip to deserted Coney Island on their 63rd wedding anniversary could have been straight from The Sopranos – what do you do if the person you are walking with across the street is simply too slow to make it by the time the lights change? Well the wife kept on walking and he just put his hand up and stopped the traffic.  Good call.

A lesson too for Casanova. Be careful about who you try and seduce. They might end up being more of a professional than you.  That was funny.

Four minutes on the train station at Otahuhu were almost sureal.  Where is that place? It’s like some deserted platform on the outskirts of Chicago during the height of the great depression. I must go back – the potential for photography is outstanding. The views towards the Manukau Harbour as the sun lowering in the sky are stunning.

I wonder why the train station at Sylvia Park isn’t integrated properly into the Centre. That would make it more appealing and a lot easier for old folk out on day trip. I’m not sure I’d drag my Mum through all this. But if I did I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t leave her to fend the traffic off on her own!

The movie: I liked it.





Memo about a movie – A Single Man

11 05 2010

Achingly tender. The story starts when I was just 17 days old. I’m sure that had nothing to do with the story, but it held me there, at the start.  Professor George Falconer (Colin Firth) is an English Professor of English in Los Angeles dealing with the tragic death of his lover of 16 years in a car accident.

He relives the life he shared while in the depths of grief that he struggles to overcome. Switching between inconsolable misery and flirtation with young lovers the screenplay for me was so tender you could feel it.  Teaching Aldous Huxley to his students great quotes that I wish I could have recorded were interwoven through the storyline:  ”Experience is not what happens to you.  It is what you do with what happens to you”. 

George’s lifelong friend Charlotte (Julienne Moore) lightens the story to compare George’s situation with her pathetic self-pity at her divorced status. Moore’s role was much hyped, but added little to the story for me.

I loved the cars, the 2-door Mercedes Benz with ticking analogue clock and wind-up chrome bordered windows.  Falconer’s house was an architectual dream  “windows in a lush sub-tropical Californian garden”. I hope the director’s know that people like me love to notice these details which can make even a mundane movie a feast for the eyes.  Not that this was a mundane movie.

Only infrequently in life do moments of great clarity come to us and this movie reminds us that this can only happen when we live in the moment. The past is gone, the future is uncertain. Now is where the power is.

I liked it. A lot.

And that’s my first movie memo!

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A reason for a new blog

10 05 2010

Hi everyone, my main blog stephendrain.com focuses on leadership.  Well it would, it’s called Stephen Drain’s leadership blog!

This blog stephendrain.org is for other stuff.  I’m not exactly sure what I’ll write about yet but I do have some ideas – I’m enjoying reading about biology, evolution, the big bang, and watching movies – hey I might review the odd movie or three.  Maybe I’ll write some more about running too, and when I get my new Nikon camera, photography. I like music too. That should be enough to start.  Who knows I might even go into religion and politics. That could be fun (for me anyway).

So could this be the missing link? Is there a missing link? Actually what there is, is a continuous evolution of Homo over the last 200,000 years.  If we found every so-called missing link then there wouldn’t be the different Homo species we now know.  After all, where would it start and stop? Which generation would be the first Homo sapien? Be hard to tell. And that’s like us – always growing and changing. Evolving. A great reason to live. And to blog.

Thanks for reading.

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